Whether you’re visiting an old friend, spending the holidays with loved ones, or family it’s always wise to put your best foot forward. To that end, good etiquette isn’t just about following rules — it’s also about making the experience pleasant and stress-free for everyone involved. During these upcoming holiday visits, prioritizing kindness, positivity, and thoughtfulness can significantly contribute to a more enjoyable and relaxing experience for both guests and hosts. By fostering a warm and harmonious environment, we can alleviate stress and promote mental well-being for everyone involved.
The next time you visit someone’s home, keep these tips in mind to ensure an enjoyable stay for all.
Communicate your travel plans in advance.
Before your visit, make sure your host knows exactly when you’ll be arriving, how long you plan to stay, and any special needs you might have. It’s said that visits should be “short and sweet” — typically no more than three nights. However long your stay, be sure your host agrees with your plans.
Try to leave Fluffy at home.
You shouldn’t ask to bring your pet along, as this could put your host in an awkward position. If you need to travel with your pet, offer to stay in a hotel or ask about nearby pet care.
Bring a gift for your hosts.
A good rule of thumb: always show up with something in hand. A small token of appreciation, such as a bottle of wine, bouquet of flowers, potted plant, or box of chocolates, can go a long way in expressing gratitude.
Be tidy and self-sufficient.
Do your best to keep your area neat. Offer to help with chores such as setting the table, doing the dishes, or walking the dog. When your visit comes to an end, try to leave the space as clean as you found it, if not cleaner and double-check that you haven’t left anything behind.
Express your gratitude and extend an invitation.
When it’s time to leave, it’s nice to express your appreciation for your host’s hospitality and the time they spent with you. Mention any specific favorite moments and be sincere in extending an invitation for them to visit your home. If you took pictures during your visit, you may consider sending some along with a thank you note, as a reminder of the memories you made together.
During the holiday season, our mental well-being often hinges on the quality of our interactions with loved ones and members in our community explains Taylor Rapaport, LCSW, Northern Light Family Medicine and Residency. “By prioritizing our own core values such as kindness, understanding, etc. in visits with friends and family, we create an environment that nurtures genuine connections, and paves the way for a healthier and more fulfilling holiday experience."
Engaging in mindful interactions, expressing gratitude, and being considerate of others' needs not only strengthens relationships but also encourages a peaceful, joyful atmosphere that benefits everyone's mental health. By following these easy tips, you'll ensure that you have a delightful holiday experience while also being a delightful guest. Happy Holidays!